Dear Brown Girl,
I know it feels heavy right now, like the world expects too much and gives too little in return. You're shouldering burdens not entirely your own and sacrificing pieces of yourself in the hope of keeping the peace or bringing joy to others. It’s important to remember that it's okay to feel overwhelmed and to desire a reset. Your feelings are valid and they matter, just as much as you do.
Please know, you don't always have to be the strong one, the giver, the one who makes everything alright for everyone else. You deserve support, love, and care just as much as anyone else in your family or circle of friends. It’s not selfish to put your needs first—it's necessary. Your well-being is just as important as your ability to care for others.
In moments like these, it’s crucial to remember that you are not alone. God is with you, guiding you gently towards your peace and well-being. Trust in that divine companionship to light your path even in the darkest times. Lean on that unfailing support and know that it's okay to ask for help, to seek the emotional love that sustains you.
You are deserving of a life filled with reciprocal love and deep fulfillment. Start by giving some of that love and kindness back to yourself. Allow yourself the space to step back and evaluate what changes can be made to improve your happiness and reduce your burdens. It’s not only about walking away from situations that drain you but also walking toward what fills you with hope and joy.
The journey ahead may have its share of challenges, but also infinite possibilities for happiness and peace. Believe in your ability to navigate this path, and remember that every step forward, no matter how small, is progress.
With Infinite Love Always,
Your Truest Self 🖤🤎